“Tell me, what it is you plan to do with your one wonderful wild and precious life” -Mary Oliver
That was the question that Irish Author and Philosopher Charles Handy asked a handful of students this past week. I had the honour of being able to be one of them.
Have you ever had one of the moments that literally felt like magic? As in you were incredibly inspired but you didn’t quite know why? This “masterclass” for me was one of those of moments.
Charles Handy has written numerous Organisational Development and Leadership books, but ironically enough his lecture to us was more of a conversation. He set up three chairs in the centre of the room and each one of us was asked to answer that first question.
I eventually came forward (I struggle with public speaking, it’s something I am working towards embracing however, as I have feeling it’s somehow linked to my path). I found myself next to Charles.
I told him that I wasn’t entirely sure what I wanted to do with my wonderful wild and precious life. That before I had moved to London and started my MBA program I had had a set path – Project Management to Program Management to Organisational Development. But that I recently realised and felt pulled to more. That I wanted to be more, do more, serve more, lead more, but it wasn’t clear to me. I also told him that I had just finished writing my first novel.
His eyes sparkled at my announcement of my writing, but he also left me with these few gems of advice:
“You can’t plan these things, but be ready to move, be ready for the chance encounters”
“If your eyes light up… do more of that”
And finally he stated the need to “stand in the orchard.” Which meant the need to network, place yourself in the right environments. How can you collect any apples if you aren’t in the orchard?
He described life as a series of curves, and that to jump to the next one you need to allow for a period of decline. One must also make sure to jump before you peak within the current curve you are in.
I was recently interviewed for work to talk about what I was passionate about. Sarah (my co worker asking the questions) asked me what my 5 year plan was. I said I didn’t know but that “I would continue to be open to what inspires me.” What I love about this was that it was affirmed by Charles Handy a few days later. He encouraged me to pay attention to what sparks me, what makes my “eyes light up” and to follow it. To be open.
He described success as an anonymous letter that he opened up that just said “Thank you.” I feel really similar. I currently have two pieces of writing that I’m getting ready to share with the world, and honestly if they make a difference in just one persons life, if they touch them and help them in some way, I will consider them successful.
I become more and more excited for what the future might hold for me… even though at this point it is still not super clear.
I am so grateful for Charles’s time. Even though the conversation was only a few moments, it’s something I think I will remember forever.